Light, Joy, Life!



I have recently heard of two “projects” taken on by young people that might help us get a healthier perspective on living.  Life is moving at such a rapid pace and there is such agitation and unease in our world that we can easily forget the quieter, simpler things in life.  It seems to me that now more than ever we need to nurture our spirit of hope and gratitude and sometimes the smallest gestures provide lasting sustenance.

Back in 2015 a 6 year old wanted to be known for sharing smiles even in the face of losing both parents in a 2 year time.  Jaden Hayes began the “Smile Experiment” by following the advice of his Aunt and giving away small toys or trinkets along with a smile big enough to brighten a room.  His desire was kindled by wanting to turn the down cast faces and hearts of mourners to smiles for the life yet to be lived.  Now, almost two years later, the infectious nature of this child’s smile continues to move others of all ages and situations to take a breath and remember the good around and inside us. You can search out Jaden’s story via Google and Facebook.

Just this past Valentine’s Day, a student who prefers to remain anonymous, made 1,300 valentines for each student in her Troy, Ohio High School.  These were simple hearts with the message “You are loved” written on each and taped to each locker. She did not want any of her classmates to be left out on what can be a difficult day for the students who are less social or connected.  The message of love is certainly one that connects others rather than causing isolation and loneliness.

Each of these efforts and so many more like them remind me that in the face of anger, name calling, fear and despair, there is hope.  These young people help me to stay grounded in my belief that God created each of us out of love and that we are here on earth in the midst of God’s creation to be people who love above all else.  We have not been created to be selfish, greedy and isolated individuals. We are part of something bigger than any one of us and I don’t know about you, but it is in that community and in this world that I find joy and above all, life.  Let’s not be ignorant about what is going on in the world, but let’s not let be all there is.  I pray that as we end this month of February – of Valentine’s Day – we will reground ourselves in a spirit of gratitude and love.  For myself, I pray that I spend more time appreciating the many graces and blessings in my life and less time worrying about a future I cannot control. What about you?

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